Pakhtunwali

1. Melmastia (hospitality) – Showing hospitality and profound respect to all visitors, regardless of race, religion, national affiliation or economic status and doing so without any hope of remuneration or favour. Pashtuns will go to great lengths to show their hospitality.
   
2. Nanawatai (asylum) – Derived from the verb meaning to go in, this refers to the protection given to a person against his or her enemies. People are protected at all costs; even those running from the law must be given refuge until the situation can be clarified. Nanawatai can also be used when the vanquished party in a dispute is prepared to go in to the house of the victors and ask for their forgiveness. (It is a peculiar form of “chivalrous” surrender, in which an enemy seeks “sanctuary” at his enemy’s house).
3. Badal (justice) – To seek justice or take revenge against the wrongdoer. There is considered to be no time limit to the period in which revenge can be taken. Justice in Pashtun lore needs elaborating: even a mere taunt (or “Paighor”) is regarded as an insult which usually can only be redressed by shedding the taunter’s blood. If he is out of reach, his closest male relation must suffer the penalty instead. Badal may lead to a blood feud that can last generations and involve whole tribes with the loss of hundreds of lives. Normally blood feuds in this male-dominated society are settled in a number of ways.
   
4. Tureh (bravery) – A Pashtun must defend his land, property, family and women from incursions. He should always stand bravely against tyranny and be able to defend the honour of his name. Death can follow if anyone offends this principle.
   
5. Sabat (loyalty) – Loyalty must be paid to one’s family, friends and tribe members. Pashtuns can never become disloyal as this would be a matter of shame for their families and themselves.
6. Imandari (righteousness) – A Pashtun must always strive for good in thought, word and deed. Pashtuns must behave respectfully to people, animals and the environment around them. Pollution of the environment or its destruction is against the Pashtunwali.
   
7. Isteqamat – Trust in God (known as “Allah” in Arabic and “Khudai” in Pashto). The notion of trusting in the one Creator generally comports toIslamic idea of belief in only one God (tawheed).
8. Ghayrat (courage) – Pashtuns must demonstrate courage. Their honour, or pride, has great importance in Pashtun society and must be preserved. They must respect themselves and others in order to be able to do so, especially those they do not know. Respect begins at home, among family members and relatives. If one does not have “Ghayrat” they are not classed as a Pashtun.
   
9. Namus (protection of women) – A Pashtun must defend the honour of women at all costs and must protect them from vocal and physical harm.
   
10. Nang (Honour) – a Pashtun must defend the weak around him.